Taking a Trip Down Memory Lane: Crafting a DVD for Your Loved One with Dementia
A guide to creating a heartfelt memory DVD. It beautifully illustrates how to compile cherished photographs and music to reconnect dementia patients with their treasured past, enhancing their present with love and nostalgia.
Read Charlotte Bartlett's personal story of how a memory DVD helped her husband in the late stages of dementia and learn how to make your own.
The benefits of a memory DVD was brought to my attention by Charlotte Bartlett. Charlotte’s husband is presently in the late stages of dementia.Here is her story recommending a trip down memory lane.
My husband is in a nursing home with dementia …unable to walk and cannot speak as well. He has been like this for several years.
Recently I had a memory DVD made which consists of :
pictures when his kids were young
Pictures of our wedding/ honeymoon in Mexico
Pictures in our home in Toronto and then in Hamilton
Trip to Israel
Family time with His kids
Family time with my kids
large pictures I had on the wall
I had over a hundred photos
I picked pan flute amazing grace and a Christian song for background music
Ended it with a bible verse
I had this made at Hamilton Media on Stone church Road E Hamilton
A good media outlet will let you check it after it is done for any needed changes
I was encouraged in doing this for I noted the smiles of happiness
that 5 years of dealing with dementia had caused me to forget.
I had this made at Hamilton Media on Stone church Road E Hamilton
A good media outlet will let you check it after it is done for any needed changes
I was encouraged in doing this for I noted the smiles of happiness
that 5 years of dealing with dementia had caused me to forget.
Our Anniversary I took the DVD in to play.
His daughter came one day My husband really connected with both the DVD and reached out to his daughter holding her hand for over an hour.
The next morning his son called to inform me he was coming up that day. Again I played the DVD and my husband who has not been able to communicate since June 2011 looked at his son and said “How are you?”.
He then took my hand and held it Oh so tight for nearly an hour
Both his kids have stated that no matter what transpires, these 2 days have given them memories they will never forget and always treasure.
I might add 3 days before our anniversary I posted about our anniversary
on facebook and people I know who are individuals of prayer, I do believe
covered that day with prayer but one thing for sure
THOSE TWO DAYS WERE DAYS OF GOD’S GRACE REACHING FORTH PLANTING GOOD MEMORIES
I have been ask by the nursing home that each day I visit to
bring in the DVD that the good memories can be registering in my
husband’s mind replacing negative memories that were giving him nightmares
**Takeaway: Memory DVDs can be a valuable tool for dementia patients and their caregivers alike, providing comfort during challenging times and allowing meaningful interactions with loved ones near and far. They are easy to make and provide an accessible way to preserve precious memories. Adding music to the Memory DVD can also have a calming effect on the patient.**
In a world where the past and present often blur for those living with dementia, the power of memories becomes a beacon of clarity and comfort. Creating a memory DVD for a family member with dementia is not just a project; it's a journey down memory lane, a stroll through the nostalgically remembered past, a real trip into the memory bank of a life richly lived. This journey is a testament to the enduring bonds of family and the timeless power of memory.
How you can take your loved one with dementia for a trip down memory lane.
Oh Charlotte!
I thought I would take the opportunity to expand on your valuable information for ur followers. Thank you so much for this inspirational post.
The Power of Memory in Dementia
Dementia, a condition characterized by a decline in memory and cognitive ability, often leaves individuals struggling to connect with their recent past. Yet, ironically, their long-term memories often remain vivid and intact. This disparity presents a unique opportunity for caregivers and family members to help bridge the gap between the past and the present.
Reminiscence therapy, a method that utilizes prompts like photos, music, or familiar items from the past, has been shown to be beneficial for those with dementia. It not only aids in recollecting memories but also boosts self-esteem and provides a sense of continuity in their lives.
Creating a Memory DVD: A Step-by-Step Guide
Collecting Memories:
Start by gathering photographs and videos that span the lifetime of your loved one. Include images of significant events, everyday moments, and places that hold special meaning. Remember to incorporate photos from different eras, like the time your grandmother spends in her youth, family gatherings, and trips taken.
Choosing the Right Music:
Music has a profound effect on memory. Select songs that were favorites of your loved one or that hold special meaning in their life. The inclusion of a familiar tune can transport them back to a moment in time, evoking emotions and memories.
Narrative and Structure:
Organize the photos and videos in a chronological order or by themes, such as family, friends, hobbies, and significant life events. This structure helps create a narrative, making it easier for your loved one to follow and relate.
Adding Personal Touches:
Consider recording family members recounting fond memories or messages. This personal touch adds an emotional depth and reinforces the connection between the past and the present.
Editing and Production:
Use simple video editing software to compile the images, videos, and music. The goal is to create a seamless flow that is easy to follow. Remember to keep it simple; overly complex or fast-paced editing can be confusing for someone with dementia.
Review and Finalize: Before finalizing the DVD, review it with other family members. This step ensures that the content is appropriate and meaningful. It's also an opportunity to add or remove elements based on collective input.
The Impact of the Memory DVD
The effect of a memory DVD on a person with dementia can be profound. Watching these DVDs can bring a smile to their face, a glint of recognition in their eyes, and even moments of lucidity where they connect with their loved ones in ways thought lost. It becomes more than just a walk down memory lane; it's a journey that rekindles the warmth of the sun from days gone by, a tour through a life well-lived.
Sharing the Journey
The beauty of a memory DVD is that it's not just for the individual with dementia; it's a treasure for the entire family. It offers a possibility for grandchildren to learn about their family history, for children to reminisce about their childhood, and for spouses to reflect on the journey shared together. It becomes a tool for bonding, understanding, and sharing experiences that span generations.
Embracing the Past to Enhance the Present
Creating a memory DVD for a loved one with dementia is a labor of love, a testament to the enduring power of memories. It's a stroll, a walk, a trip down memory lane that not only honors the past but also enriches the present. This project goes beyond mere reminiscing; it's about crafting a legacy, a tangible connection to a life filled with meaning, love, and experiences.
In conclusion, embarking on this creative endeavor offers a unique opportunity to connect with your loved one in a profound and meaningful way. It's about capturing the essence of their journey, celebrating their life, and ensuring that their memories continue to shine brightly, even in the face of dementia.
About the author Charlotte Bartlett
I was born with 4 types of Meningitis and the Sick Kids Hospital in Toronto gave me 10 days to live
In returning to Huntsville with my parents my funeral was planned.
The Doctors advised my parents if by chance I did live I would never walk or talk
WELL GOD HAD OTHER PLANS AS HE DOES FOR YOU AS WELL.
Although my lower back was partially paralyzed during 5 bouts of pneumonia in 14 months along with emphysema the Lord healed the paralysis. It was during this time he taught me on Inner Healing emphasizing WHAT is our FOCUS ON?
When we focus on Christ we allow His Word to transform our thinking
Luke 11:33-36 / Romans 12:2
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